
PICK
ONE THING
So many causes, so many
problems. Daily I am inundated by emails
from the right wing, the left wing, the fundamentalists,
the progressives, the independents, pro-choice,
pro-life; from those fighting for the homeless,
for the hungry, for minorities, for children,
for the elderly, for animals, for the environment,
for health care, for Darfur, for Rwanda,
for Palestinians, for the rainforests…help
us, give us money, give us time, do something
or disaster will occur because you haven’t
done anything.
And it was a rough last-week-of-December
by any account. I was particularly troubled
by the assassination of Benazir Bhutto just
before the Pakistani elections. Too much
talk about nuclear Pakistan falling into
chaos…the Atomic Clock moving closer
to midnight… certain people whispered
that it looked like World War III was moving
onto the stage.
All those black mutterings
had me looking at what the world has become
over the last decade. And then, historian
that I am (and being married to a professional
one to boot), I began to think back. Years… decades… centuries.
In those days,
- there was time to think, to be deliberate
in one’s actions and words.
- basic civility was the norm, rather than
the constant shrill demand that one’s
personal rights were more important than
the comfort or care of others around you.
- everyone acknowledged a definite demarcation
between work time and private time.
- neighbors were not afraid of each other;
they did not fear for their children’s
very existence walking around the block
alone.
- one knew that the world was still going
to exist; that there was still a great
deal of the earth untouched by mankind;
that no matter how bad things got, the
earth itself was going to be all right.
It feels like we have none
of that now. The world is speeding up, constructed
in such a way that what we have taken for
granted in almost every area of our lives
is being brought into question. What do we
do? Go numb to avoid the sheer despair? Dive
headlong into hedonism? What can anyone do?
And then I heard a voice
in my head…clear, crisp, precise, and
forceful.
“Pick one thing.”
This was without a doubt
not my own thought, but from some Being outside
of me -- as clarion call as ever my guides
and angels have given me.
“Pick one thing.”
We are all going to die,
eventually. As Jim Morrison said, no one
gets out of here alive. So whether one dies
at home, safe and in bed; in a war zone;
in a post-nuclear-winter survival scenario;
or any one of the million ways it’s
possible to leave this mortal coil – you
are here now. For a week, a month, a year,
five years, twenty. And in that time, while
our world is more complex than it has ever
been, you are still hands that can heal or
feed or plant or create. You are a head that
can think new thoughts, provide new intentions,
and learn new responses. And you are still
a heart that can hear truth, feel love rather
than fear, and connect with all those who
have been before and will be in the future – for
the heart and the soul are our twin cores.
This year, I will pick
one thing – one thing that I feel good
doing. And instead of thinking of it as not
enough because of everything else in the
world that needs repair and redress, I will
give that one thing my whole head and hand
and heart. And thus, instead of despair,
I will plant hope – in my own heart
as well as others’. And I will make
a difference.
If there is one wish I
have for you at this New Year, it would be
that you, too, find your One Thing. It will
be different for every one of you. But as
long as you find it, treasure it, and work
to heal it in a way that heals you as well,
it will be the Right Thing.

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